HIGH-DEF LOVE
I sit here in my apartment this morning. Normally, I would be up at the church on a Monday morning, but this morning I sit waiting … waiting for the cable guy. I know, a little too cliché, but it is the truth; though I must admit that I wait not with frustration, but with anticipation.
I am waiting on the cable guy because I am upgrading to high definition cable. With the NFL season looming in the next couple weeks I am excited at the prospect of watching my favorite sport in crisp, brilliant images; at least that’s the plan. I look forward to seeing clearly defined sweat and spit as players fly around the field. Will I ever be able to go back to standard definition? It is uncertain … we’ll see.
I preached this week on authentic love and used as my text the thirteenth chapter of First Corinthians. Any discussion about authentic love begins and ends with an understanding of Christ’s love and no chapter in the Bible more clearly defines the attributes of his unconditional love than First Corinthians thirteen.
In that chapter, Paul reminds us of so many important truths about authentic love; the very things I talked about Sunday morning with our church body. However, one aspect of the chapter that I didn’t get into during my message I wanted to write about here.
At the end of the chapter, Paul talks about how our human capacity of grasping authentic love here on earth is sorely inadequate. There will always be aspects of our own humanity—selfishness, pride, immaturity, etc.—that that will taint our vision of that bona fide, Christ-like love. Sin has a way corrupting those things that God intended to be pure and holy. Sadly, in our weakness, we are willing to chase after poor facsimiles of Christ-like love and accept that it is the best we will ever find. We are satisfied with what the world offers when there is so much more.
Here’s the good news: it won’t always be like that. One day we will see Christ’s love in high definition, exactly as God intended. Look with me at what Paul writes about it. He says,
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“We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist [your basic standard definition]. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us [that would be high definition], knowing him directly just as he knows us!”
1 Corinthians 13:12 (The Message)
[brackets are my musings, of course]
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When Christ’s love begins to take complete control of your heart, soul and mind you effectively see the world through his eyes. As you allow his presence in your life, you will find that you have little room for things such as pettiness, prejudice, self-centeredness, etc. as you experience the effects of authentic love on your everyday life. It has the power to rekindle lifeless marriages, to restore broken friendships, and to revive lost, dead souls; and it can happen both to you and through you as well. You won’t imagine ever wanting to go back to the way things were before.
The choice is there for each of us, accept this world’s standard definition of love—at best, something that makes us feel good about ourselves for awhile and at worst, leaves us feeling betrayed, embarrassed and ashamed—or chose God’s higher definition of love—where relationships are built on a foundation of selflessness and unconditional personal sacrifice with the ultimate goal of growing closer to Him.
Trust me, I know it isn’t going to be easy … it goes against my human nature. It leads me to ask God to change me rather than everyone else, it challenges me to sacrifice what seems most important to me to gain that which is actually most important, and it calls me to clearly define who I love the most (hint: it’s not supposed to be me)
You know, while I was writing this article, the cable guy came and got my new HD cable connected. I like flipping back and forth between standard definition ESPN and HD ESPN just to note how much better it is. I suppose since they both run at the same time, I will always watch the HD ESPN … after all, why would I chose to watch the cheap substitute when I have access to HD? Hmm, something to think about, I guess.
Seeing Clearly Today,
DAVE